Vowels are those letters
that together with consonants give words their force, sound,
pronunciation and tone. Vowels give the words life. They are like the
air that goes into the lungs. Life has its vowels, so to speak. The
pain, the sorrow, the laughter, reward and recognition constitute the
vowels of life. In life one seeks to be lively, productive, desires
to experience the environment and improve on an individual world
view. There are a few tips that we tend to overlook as we go through
life. The tips are the life skills we need to negotiate, affirm,
engage and tap into life to make it worthwhile. The tips are:
Attitude towards
pressures; empowerment to analyze the pressures; independence of
mind, soul and body; operational mode to contribute to solutions
through linkages and partnerships; and understanding one's context.
Life has its pressures
and these manifest in many forms: from where one will get the daily
bread; where the next pay check will come from; up to being
responsible. In order to enjoy life, one has to have good life
preserving practices and responsibility towards oneself and society.
There are life skills
that one needs to survive in life. These depend on one's ability to
analyze the contexts in which one lives. This is when one gathers
survival intelligence and what is needed to pursue a happy life.
Life progresses into
ownership of skills, talents and abilities. This enables one to
conduct independent conversations, thinking and execute actions whose
outcomes are productive and promote sociable attachments. This is the
basis of balanced mental health, high spirits and motivation.
It is never the best
strategy to work in isolation. In whatever things we do in life, we
seek to work as a community. One should endeavour to improve on one's
people to people skills. This helps in breaking barriers and gives
one confidence to progress in life.
One has to have the
ability to note those experiences that range from being beneficial as
well as those that caused harm through mistakes. One has to ruminate
on what goes on in their conscience. This ability to face one's own
flaws and decide to improve on oneself is a good practice. However,
it only comes about when there is a will to do self accountability.
The will to acknowledge limitations (note that I have said
limitations and not limits. The distinction here is narrow I admit
but it depends on readiness, resources and creativity). To know one's
limitations and one's limits are two different things. The former is
executed without factoring in potential, while the latter s executed
with the knowledge that there are factors absent otherwise one would
have performed even better.
As I conclude, effort,
initiative, desire to learn, attitude towards team work,
responsibility, self accountability and survival constitute the
vowels of life. These are what improve on self esteem, self worth,
personality, one's ability to relate and effectiveness.
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